My son always asks me "Mommy, are you happy with me?" when he knows that I am upset with him regarding his behavior or action. I am honest with him. If I am not happy with him, I reply with a "No." If I am happy with him, I reply with a "Yes." My "Yes" or "No" to hold makes all the difference in his mood for the next 5 minutes (because unlike adults, children really do not hold grudges for very long). If he hears me say "No" his face makes a frown and puts his head down. If he hears me say "Yes", his face lights up and goes along bouncing with joy. That has me thinking what a difference a simple word makes in the esteem of a child.
The words you say to your child are powerful beyond measure. During the toddler stage, especially, they are learning who they are within themselves and the world-at-large. We as Mommy's can make or break the spirit of a child. So be careful what words you speak to your child. It will either build them up or tear them down; it will either inspire them or retire them. Speak life to your child!!
From one mom to the next,
Aurellia
WORDS TO BUILD YOUR CHILD UP:
I appreciate you!
You're Special!
You're Awesome!
You Rock!
Amazing!
I love you!
You matter!
About Me
- Aurellia
- Aurellia Anderson is a passionate woman about God. She enjoys inspiring and encouraging others to live their life on purpose (even when her own life needs a pick-me-up). She is a hospital Chaplain, licensed minister with the Evangelical Covenant Church, and the President of her own company, Hidden Gem (www.HiddenGemCo.com). A mother, entrepreneur, ChurchChick(TM) , and just your average ray of sunshine-Welcome to the Personal Blog of Aurellia Anderson.
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